I am Aarti Raheja, wife of Anil Raheja and mother of Ahaan Raheja, as labelled by this world. In reality the relationship goes way beyond. We have been together for many lifetimes and have finally realised our purpose in this life.
I lost my 12 year old boy, Ahaan a few years ago. and these few years have been an incredible revelation to me – about life. How it is up to me to choose to be happy or sad, no matter the circumstances. It really is within me to create the universe around for myself. I can do it by smiling and spreading cheer or I can clam up, shut down and radiate misery.
This way of living was taught to us by our son who came back to tell us the ultimate truths of existence. Never leaving us. Guiding us to the light within us, the light of the soul, the light of love and the light of oneness of all souls.
We chose to accept life for it is – unending and by keeping a positive outlook we hope to dispel unnecessary grief – which is too abundant in our opinion. Not just when you lose a loved one but it could be a divorce, betrayal, addiction etc.
This blog is just our way of sharing the pearls of wisdom handed down to us which helped us transform from devastation, guilt, depression, and other egotistical layers to peace and love as the nature of our being. We really have nothing to do with it. We take no credit for it. We open our hearts and the words come tumbling out…
Three years after Ahaan passed on, Anil, my husband, Ahaan and Armaan’s(my younger son) father and the person to start this blog too dropped his body.
We had been taught well and when this heart wrenching situation hit us, was when I realised that the illusion of death had lost it’s hold, the love was still intact, the separation was only physical and we were united at a soul level – The only level that matters in life and in death. There was love and peace flowing. Life is being led in joy and celebration with love in the heart of all creation. It is God’s grace.